When the wild winds of change blow through our life…
…we can lose our balance and it can feel disorienting and scary.
Lately I’ve been experiencing changes in my body, my relationship with my husband & children, and my business…
I have been struggling lately… my oldest boy just turned 16 and immediately got his driver’s permit…and it’s bringing up SO much for me!
Then I got back from a wildly exciting trip to NYC… I shared with my husband about what I desire AND what I am no longer available for.
He didn’t understand…thought I was dissatisfied with him…he got reactive…angry…triggered…it felt like love had left me.
But I didn’t run from the intensity, not this time.
These INITIATIONS can be Oh so tricky and even painful, but we never need to be ashamed of this or keep this hidden.
Exquisite Self Care is every inch Emotional and Spiritual as Physical…
…so I received extra support from girlfriends and mentors, and I went on a deep healing journey (see below).
Petal by petal, I melted open, meeting the pain with softness, surrendered…
…and finally reunited with a love that can’t leave me, for I AM love…(with all of my stuff ;-))
Women are a living kaleidoscope, and its vital to allow ourselves full reign of our emotions and expression to be WHOLE.
Pretending we are perfect and without challenges or denying strong emotions isn’t the way of the Divine Feminine.
Our emotions and every facet of ourself is a North Star guiding us to our inherent beauty, strength and wholeness.
Wholeness is a gracious beauty…
Cultivating WHOLENESS is the antidote to losing our balance in overwhelming situations and emotions:
Despair
Ugliness
Rupture
Anger
Frustration
Heartbreak
Overwhelm
Chaos
Laughter
Joy
Rapture
Bliss
Beauty
Wholeness includes every drop of ALL of you!
Negating any part of ourself can cause us to lose connection with our desire, our authenticity, our power and ultimately what is beautiful, true and meaningful to us…
3 Steps to Wholeness
1. ACCEPTANCE, the permission to feel every drop of whatever you are experiencing- embrace and not negate any aspect of yourself.
2. CLEAR the painful blocks, limiting beliefs and heavy emotions you are currently experiencing.
3. ALIGN your actions with the newly up-leveled frequency you are now in
So what about YOU?
- Are you tired of shrinking into the shadows, giving away your power and living a smaller life than you know is possible for you?
- Are you sad that you still aren’t fully loving yourself, honoring yourself and giving yourself the best – and that you’re on call for everyone else, except you?
- Are you overwhelmed by feelings that you keep hidden from yourself and others which are making you sick?
- Are you done with denying your desires, and not allowing yourself to have the joyous, opulent life of freedom and fulfillment you dream of?
If you feel like you’re hiding parts of yourself or living in servitude, scarcity or STRUGGLE of any kind – no matter what level you’ve reached in your life – then I have a sacred solution for you.
On my own journey to embodying Earth Empress, I have discovered the Slavegirl archetype that lives in many women…
She is the small, scared part of you that feels unworthy and powerless.
She is the part of you hiding in the shadows, waiting to do someone else’s bidding.
She is the part of you that fears your power, your gifts and your brilliance, and doesn’t want to feel too deeply or shine too brightly or put herself at risk of judgement or punishment.
She is the part of you that hides, feels lost and alone and is in need of some deep love and healing.
And when that healing can take place, something beautiful happens…
Your Slave girl is able to become a part of your team, working with you to create your dreams, instead of creating scarcity and struggle in your life.
She is able to support you with her resilience and resourcefulness, while stepping to one side and allowing another regal archetype to help you be prosperous and powerful.
Because where you have a Slavegirl, you also have an Empress!
Your inner Empress is the beautiful, graceful, radiant, sensual aspect of you who KNOWS your natural state of being is abundance, wisdom, freedom.
She stands in her value, treating herself like a precious jewel that is sacred and worthy of the very best.
She allows you to step into your magnificence and SHINE.
She supports you in generating heart-based prosperity doing what you love, on your terms.
She answers to no one but your heart and soul, and is unafraid to make a stand for her Truth.
She adores opulence, beauty, pleasure and takes exquisite care of herself.
If this resonates with you, and you would love to heal your Slavegirl and allow your Empress to take command in your life, then I have a something special to offer you.
I have co-created a truly beautiful healing journey with my friend and fellow business goddess, Cordelia Francesca Brabbs, to help you do just this.
Cordelia is a Freedom Mentor and Miracles Activator for conscious and creative women who want to rebel against the reality they’ve been told they should live, and create the magical life of their dreams instead.
In this unique package, we take you on a sacred journey to meet and heal your inner Slavegirl, break the chains of servitude she is bound by, and activate your Inner Empress.
You deserve to discover the power and beauty of reclaiming and embracing every part of you!
with so much love and healing,
Tagged: exquisite self care, natural health and beauty, raw foods, raw renewal, rejuvenation, sensual beauty
I love everything about your blog/newsletter, Shakaya! Beautiful wisdom this week–thanks.
I love everything about this comment, Chara
Excellent BLOG! Inspiring, honest and simply gorgeous.
I love inspiring you Susan!
This really resonated with me. Especially “Are you overwhelmed by feelings that you keep hidden from yourself and others which are making you sick.” I didn’t even realize that I was keeping feelings from MYSELF but it’s true. Thanks for this post!
beautiful new awareness Zuzana
I feel like I have lost myself, my true essence…..I must find what makes me happy again. I have dimmed my light for far too long……. I have to be brave & do something that is so terrifying to me.