An Earth Empress is a woman who takes exquisite care of herself, UNAPOLOGETICALLY.
She knows who she is and what she wants, without explanation or apology.
She is BEAUTIFUL and VALUABLE and WHOLE.
But we cannot experience that when we negate any part of ourself or feel shame and apologetic about who we are.
Frozen sick bodies, tight thoughts and contracted hearts, vanilla-beige lives of quiet desperation…
…boring marriages/love affairs and unfulfilling day-to-day experiences steal the life out of life!
We’re not meant to dim or tip-toe around, apologizing.
Especially for things we’re NOT sorry for.
We’re meant for so much MORE than that, O yes you are!
One step towards FREEDOM is to identify where you feel wrong, and to take back your power!
TRY this FUN and powerful exercise that my clients LOVE!
Write out and declare from your Soul what you will NO LONGER apologize for.
Then watch this video, shake your money maker around declaring what YOU are no longer willing to apologize for!
with unapologetic beauty, truth and power,
ps Here’s my list~
I’m not sorry and I won’t apologize for:
taking EXQUISITE care of myself
not self-abandoning
being among the most magnetic women in any room
having high standards
caressing, affecting, transforming, connecting
living my legacy
easily attracting attention from men
being impatient
my wisdom
being baffled by superiority or inferiority- we are ALL so special
my ultra sexy dancing
being FULFILLED as a mom
risking looking ridiculous
ascending and taking others HIGHER
my sensual style
obsessing over my family’s happiness
receiving ALOT from my man
not settling
my beauty
my ugliness
giving up the need to be right or even understood
changing my name
my feminine mystique
a passion I cannot contain
hating (and I do mean hating) violence, bullying, gossip, racism/sexism/ageism, toxic fumes, judgements, labels, and split ends
taking my time
being a fierce mama bear
my veils
smelling like flowers and honey
being the Matriarch in my family
not connecting with people who don’t inspire me
honoring the needs of my feminine body
being gentle yet firm- kindness isn’t weakness
being ironic, iconic, confident, complicated and full of feminine paradoxes
feeling bored when things aren’t REAL
when I am frantic and scattered
my initiations
having a ton of energy and being considered ‘intense’ by those who can’t keep up
having strong opinions
changing my mind
being high-Raw
traveling deep
being a catalyst
my Shadows
lacing beauty with depth
the brightness of compassion
following my heart
being sensitive
loving my beautiful body
triggering anyone when I said that
walking away when it doesn’t feel right
guarding my schedule
being terrified of lightening storms
not doing bathrooms or floors~ I have a cleaning lady for that 😉
being hardcore about things that are important to me
wanting more than most in this lifetime
my incessant appetites, yearnings, cravings, longings
receiving before I give to keep my well filled to overflowing
surrendering to inspiration
feeling powerfully vulnerable as I write this
investing in my dreams
my expressiveness
letting go of what doesn’t serve me
walking in my goddess body
celebrating beauty
indulging my cravings
flirting
gifting myself high-level support
saying YES I WANT THAT, NO THAT DOESN’T WORK FOR ME, I’M NOT READY or NOT NOW
my truth
prioritizing pleasure
having my way with the world
my darkness
my Light
embracing my edges
enjoying being a woman
my highway driving phobia
guaranteeing my own good time
valuing my downtime
not holding back
my dreams and desires
charging what I’m worth (and receiving it!)
my turn-ons
being accountable to my soul
not being programmed by the news
choosing enchantment
coming here to dance my dance
my exquisite taste
my knowing
being wildish and not complying
my sacred rituals
my power as a woman to create MY dream life!
AND adding to this list whenever I want ;D
Tagged: exquisite self care, natural health and beauty, raw foods, raw renewal, rejuvenation, sensual beauty
YEAH! Great list!!!!!!!! How powerful to declare it!
This is inspiring, Shakaya! I’ve spent my whole life apologizing for everything, even when I’ve done nothing wrong. I’ve spent too long feeling like my existence is an inconvenience. I won’t apologize anymore. I have a right to be here and be my authentic self as much as anyone else. Thank you for posting this.
@jessamina: YES Jessamina! What are you now declaring?
@McKella: my pleasure McKella! Go ahead, take up space, you deserve to be here and SHINE your special brand of beauty out into the world!