Today I’m celebrating in a fresh new way on this day of LOVE!

I created something of an Ode to my own divine love affair with my life, (which I’ll admit I feel myself sensually s-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g into revealing BELOW)

PLUS I have a delicious surprise for my family tonight-

I booked a table at my favorite raw restaraunt for my husband and I AND our boys to all celebrate the love in our life, together 🙂

Valentine’s Day is a celebration of LOVE for us all.

Not just for couples…

Oh a sassy memory comes to mind~

I remember the first years into my marriage Valentine’s Day was so wonderful- celebrating the love of my new-found Soul Mate.

But to be real soon our traditional Valentine dates weren’t doing it for me-

Maybe you’re like this too- I can get bored quickly- so I decided to spice things WAY up…

One Valentine night when he fell asleep on the couch while we were watching a video after our dinner date, I sneaked into the bedroom emerging minutes later wearing only a garter and stockings, a sexy black lace bra and panties, high heels, pearls.

I sprayed him with perfume and put his cell phone on the cushion next to his ear.

I quietly dialed him from my bedroom phone.

He sleepily answered, I whispered into the phone ‘Look up, Lover’.

When he looked up in the dark, he saw was one of my legs wrapped around the door frame of our bedroom.

The rest of me was hidden but once I had his attention my hand appeared and pointed at him with a ‘come hither’ gesture.

‘What the…’ and with a click he was off the phone, off the couch and… on track again 😉

THAT was a Valentine’s night I’ll never forget.

Because I knew I wanted more romance and passion and instead of resenting him for not generating it, I allowed myself to infuse it into our life!

Every year has been an opportunity to experience a sexy adventure that usually turns out.

(You can see last year’s UNSEXY VALENTINE Here)

But here’s WHY it really comes together year after year-

He loves me because I love me.

The more I take exquisite care of myself and nurture my dreams, he wants to lavish me with his love more and more.

Sacrificing any parts of ourself doesn’t turn us on, and if we’re not turned on…

Today I felt inspired to write a love letter to my Valentine…

about everything I LOVE & APPRECIATE about her and my life.

When I shared it with my lover his eyes got wide and so did his smile- he loved it and actually insisted on adding to the list himself literally making me BLUSH!

DEAR VALENTINE,

I want you to know I so love and appreciate:

*my radiance

*my sensual beauty

*my wisdom

*my playfulness

*my sex appeal

*my poetic view of life

*my lilac bushes

*my glow

*my truth

*my intuition

*my shadow

*my loving King who claimed me

*my mind-blowing head to toe whole body orgasms

*my love rituals of massages by candlelight

*my flower waters I make that I spray on my pillows

*my wealth

*my garden

*my love letters

*my secrets

*my fears

*my melencholy

*my breasts

*my stand for women

*my vulnerability

*my hair

*my lavender linen sheets

*my sexy shoes

*my incessant desire to connect 

*my books I’ve written

*my journals

*my raw recipes (especially desserts)

*my raw mojitos

*my ability to make him weak in the knees

*my Empress state of mind (still in progress)

*my prayers

*my prosperity

*my feminine mystique

*my Queenly cravings

*my playful flirtation

*my apple blossom tree

*my dear readers

*my beautiful customers

*my exotic essential oils

*my wild woman

*my raw emotion

*my healing

*my incessant desire to grow

*my ability to express myself through dance

*my spa bedroom

*my sex transmutation

*my cozy, luxurious cashmere

*my elegant entrance and 20′ celings

*my beautiful thriving jewelled mulberry trees

*my deep love and connection to our beautiful, enchanting Earth

* my awemazing boys who shower me daily with laughter and hugs

*my gorgeous home and sanctuary of a homelife we’ve created and enjoy every single day

*my charities and philanthropy

*my gifts of love

*my weekly massages and herbal facials

*my pearls and diamonds

*my designer handbag collection

*my handmade oak night tables he made for me

*my lover’s marathons in luxury hotels at least once a year

*my morning barefoot walks in the forest

*my certifications and awards

*my courage

*my sensuality

*my luxurious perfumes I create for myself and inner circle clients

*my willowy waist

*my bank account

*my magnificent clients

*my beautiful bouquet of white roses he woke me up with!

*my Sund-day breakfasts in bed journalling when my kids make smoothies and bring mine up to me

*my beautiful wardrobe and exquisite clothes (many of my own designs)

*my artwork, writing, singing and creativity

*my ‘failures’ that have been a beautiful opportunity to ripen and expand

*my langerie drawer

*my sensual sa-shay walk

*my femininity (thank you Mom)

*my mystery

*my authenticity

*my Authority

*my Leadership of my family to still be raw with me 14 years later!

*my devoted girlfriends of 30 years

*my exquisite pink peonies

*my waterfall and pond he made for me to write by

*my neighbors

*my wonderful VA, designer, web guru and EE team

*my sweet and refreshing morning smoothie ritual with my lover whenever he’s home

*my daily meditations

*my loving admiration for and from my 3 guys

*my incessant energy

*my freedom

*my body-temple

*my imagination

*my Light

*my turn ons

*my rose petal baths

*my erotica

*my ultra over-arching Intention

*my earth Angels

*my fellow Capricorn Creatrixes

*my luxurious mentorships I’ve gifted myself

*my sincerity

*my library

*my Vision

*my aroma

*my iconic essence

*my loyal fans

*my softness and boldness

*my passion for women and children

*my visceral aliveness

*my sensual standards

*my incessant ability to be inspired and inspire

*my style

*my ultimateability to make-over a woman’s presentation

*my God-given gifts and talents

*my view outside my window

*my gorgeous sweet and wonderful mastermind sisters

*my fierceness and grace

*my loving heart

*my relationships with collegues

*my juicy dreams and desires

*my sense of self and worthiness 

*my sovereignty

*my stage presence

*my successful business doing what I love

*my incesssant love and appetite for beauty

*my capacity for enchantment

*my ultra sexy …..

*my beeswas candles

*my lifelong journal collection

*my tithing and passion for contribution

*my budding lust

*my natural and glamourous lifestyle

*my Legend

*my passion and ambition

*my story

*my transformation

*my journey

*my time

*my limitless gratitude

*And my Divine connection to Source, which makes it all possible!

My husband had fun adding to my list what he appreciates (I can’t believe I’m sharing this too!):

*Her most delicious and edible belly button ever

*Her softest smoothest most radiant kissable skin all over her body

*Her kisses that taste like nectar

*Her never ending 19 year old’s legs 

*Her perfect, round, luscious gorgeous breasts

*Her radiance and gorgeous beauty

*Her sexy sparkle in her eye when she looks at me 

*Her gorgeous Victoria Secret Model body

*Her mysterious ways

*Her teasing that drives me wild!

*Her mouth-watering moves

*Her mesmerising voice

*Her loyalty

*Her power

*Her genorous heart

*Her ability to read people and situations

*Her intuition

*Her trust

*Her belief in me

*Her support

*Her passion for being a mother

*Her wildness

*Her food

*Her womanly ways

*Her humming

*Her amazing touch that heals me

*Her forgiveness

*Her sexy dancing

*Her surprises

*Her kindness

*Her appreciation for what I do

*Her laugh

*Her smell

*Her magical ways of seeing the world

*Her spirit

*Her ability to hold my attention for now and forever

I CELEBRATE ALL MY LOVING WITHIN ME AND MY LIFE THIS VALENTINE’S DAY ♥

Now it’s YOUR TURN my Beauty 😀

What do you love and appreciate about YOU and your life, you gorgeous precious creature?

When I ask clients to list what they love about themsleves sometimes it’s like pulling teeth-

it’s really epidemic how we’ve been so conditioned to dim our Light- no longer!

I found myself with some mixed feelings and if any of it triggers you too, it’s not a bad thing because it shows us where we have yet to blossom 😉

Let us all stand in our own beauty and delight, and SHINE, radiating out to the world, but first within our own Heart.

Empress, I invite you to get cozy and gift yourself this opportunity to open your heart wider to yourself and your life.

No holding back, let yourself go and really feel into the beauty and miracle of YOU and your loving.

Celebrate yourself and your life with an epic sexy love letter this Valentine’s Day!

I’m sending you so much love, beauty and enchantment today.

with legendary love, flowers and raw chocolate,

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