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*entrepreneurial training* if I can do it so can YOU

Have you ever looked at some of the women entrepreneurs you admire

and you just KNOW you have a message and that YOU could be as successful?


Some of my clients have asked me how to create a beautiful life inspiring women 

in a way that feels powerfully feminine and FUN- and make a good income too!


I’ve been invited by my collegue Amanda Moxley to share how I’ve done it in her upcoming  





IF you ever thought about what it would take to switch from being 

an employee to entrepreneur, check out this free event!


You’ll discover:

– How to fill LIVE and VIRTUAL events with raving fans who adore you

– The difference between ‘high-touch’ and ‘high-tech’

– Fun sponsorship ideas to go into your event making money

– Secrets to standing out from the crowd in the crowded online space

– Tips on dressing for success to attract clients on stage, in video and livestream

– What NOT to do on social media

– Secrets to connect with your tribe AND MORE!




The same success is available to YOU if you stop trying to reinvent the wheel 

and try some simple, practical steps that have worked for me and my collegues.

ps I know this is a little different from what I usually talk about but…

DID YOU KNOW MORE WOMEN THEN MEN are becoming entrepreneurs?

There are so many BENEFITS to having your own business especially for us women!




the beauty of negativity and bad habits


Hello Lovedrops,

It is the first quarter of LOVE MONTH (February) and we are HERE.

We are alive and endowed with our body, our Spirit and our Life!

We desire to share our gifts and live a life of experiences that enchant us.


But we don’t always feel so tuned in and turned on…

life is a journey with many cycles and seasons especially for us women.

We all have ‘bad days’ ‘bad moods’ ‘bad habits’… I know I do 😉


WARNING: I’ve noticed especially within ‘conscious communities’ a sense of

shame or fear to acknowledge our ‘negativity’.


Teachings like The Secret or Law of Attraction can cause us to

deny and denounce all that isn’t ‘feeling good’.


And while it’s true that like attracts like and our frequency is vitally important

hence ESC and a beautiful diet etc etc

I don’t believe negating our truth is healthy or helpful.


We simply cannot successfully operate over top of in a Spiritual Bypass.


That never works and we end up leaking out passive-aggressive energy and

even exploding in a tantrum, or we internalize it and become depressed.


I’m not a fan of ‘self-improvement’ or denial-

instead I invest my energy in curiosity and turning my lead into my gold.


I have found alot of wonder and goodness can come out of negativity!

It’s like the deep, dark soil full of rot and decaying things is a hotbed

of fertility and new life. 


For example, and this one is particularly raw and painful for me-

I have a lifetime of ‘bad days’ ‘bad moods’ ‘bad habits’ all stemming from insomnia.

Despite healthy ‘sleep hygeine’, diet and lifestyle 

I still find it challenging and feel lucky to sleep 4-6 hours a night.

(Fortunately my sleep is very deep and improving every day =D 


Sleep is a spiritual practice and I intend to cultivate it deeply this year.

For living with so little sleep all my life has had health consequences.

Plus I have companions of Melancholy, Fear and Insecurity since childhood.

Has it been Lonely? Frustrating? A Nightmare at times? Yes.


And yet, there has been so much learning, expansion, creativity, compassion and GIFTS… 

I wonder if I would be here with my own business and this blog sharing

my message of EXQUISITE SELF-CARE, Sensual Beauty, Raw Foods, Detox etc etc

had my life and my sleep been much different..?


Insomnia hasn’t been my conscious choice…yet I consciously CHOOSE IT.


I choose it now after years of denying, resenting and despairing over it-

I choose it because at least for now, it’s mine, and when we argue with reality we lose 

and cannot heal or transform any part of ourself that we don’t embrace.




Now it’s your turn to identify ONE of your big ‘bads’-

could be around food or substances, relationships, your purpose, your beauty…


What is initiating in you the desire for change and healing in your life right now?


No judgement, just be kind with yourself and get curious about 

the message it’s trying to tell you and even the gifts its offered 🙂

I’d love to hear in the comments!


with love and beauty sleep,


ps The Healing Baths Ritual call is happening THIS THRUS 

for all Body Cleansers to further support your detox!

 Watch your email for call in details, and the replay if you can’t join live.


look and feel beautiful no matter what you’re doing

First I want to thank everyone who wrote in about my last post!

I received so many that I couldn’t reply personally to them all-

WOW is this community full of SMART, HEART-CENTERED,

CONSCIOUS, women- I so enjoyed hearing your feedback!


NOW for a little BEAUTY LEVITY 😉


For those days when you are working, doing chores,

childcare, cooking, running errands etc and you don’t want

to wear make-up or wash your hair but you still want to look 













I’m in ZERO make-up, with DIRTY hair and HOUSE-WORK attire

but I still feel pretty and presentable.

** The call I was referring to in the above video will be up until Feb:

>>Listen to the REPLAY here:
>>**SKIP to 13 MINUTE MARK as there was technical issues- 
so many of you stayed on the line… thanks for your patience!**

Share how you liked these tips and what tips YOU have in the comments! 


with effortless elegance,



ps The BODY CLEANSE is 50% off  until the end of January~

use the code BIRTHDAY at checkout to receive $100 off!

JOIN US and receive a FULL PRIVATE SESSION WITH ME at no extra cost!


response to the women’s protest marches

Perhaps you witnessed/participated in the ‘women’s’ protest marches this weekend…

Perhaps some of you wondered why you didn’t fully RESONATE although you passionately share the concerns with the women who were marching…

Perhaps there is another way to refine and express our holy fire…

I feel the energy of protest though absolutely valid is masculine in nature …

so perhaps to crusade for what we stand for rather than crusading against what we are protesting, is key..

Most people (not only our brothers) have never understood the great mystery and power of the feminine.

Instead we have all been taught mostly overt and unbalanced masculine means of expression.

But accessing our power this way comes at a high cost for everyone, especially us as women.

The Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine are a love affair, a union of energies that complement and complete each other.

So much of the struggle and abuse in our world is a result of dishonouring, outdated models of the past mostly embodied by the unenlightened masculine (and feminine to a degree).

For many of us, our emotions are feeling raw and tender and all over the place.

I am so grateful for all the sisters who marched and for all sisters who prayed and meditated.

I honor your choice. May we learn from each other and find ways to listen to each other.

And then whatever storm or darkness, together we will give birth to a new world.

with an unleashing wave of beauty and love,

ps A dear client sent me this note and I thought I’d share it with you:


Hey Shakaya,

I wrote this today on my website and it got a huge response.
You really inspired so much of it and I thought I would share with you so you can see some of the fruit of our work together.

Sending love and so much gratitude your way.

I want to take a minute to write to my women friends who don’t feel represented by the march that happened on Saturday. I know many (MANY) of you did feel represented by that experience and empowered by it, to those I would say I’m glad for you and grateful whenever you find anything that inspires and moves you. But it has also become clear to me over the last fews day that many (MANY) women do NOT feel represented by the march that happened, by the ideology behind it, by the assumptive misappropriation of the word Women, as though it was representing all women, when it was not. I personally did not respond to the Women’s March. I’m still a woman last time I checked.

AND I’m still a woman who feels deeply the social, economic and racial injustices of our day. I believe that many of the issues brought up by the creators of the Women’s March are extremely important. But, for me, the organizing in that way did not make my feminine heart sing at the beauty and amazing power of women. A march, a protest, is ironically a very masculine energy. (I know many of you won’t relate to my thinking, again, this isn’t for you.) To me, masculine energy is the energy of conquering, forcing, pillaging and plundering if you will. Feminine energy, is the energy of captivating, seducing, enchanting. It’s mysterious, beautiful, spiritual and different but EVERY BIT AS POWERFUL as masculine energy. I believe that we as women are at our most powerful when we are living out of our femininity. But that’s harder to do! Because the world responds more to masculinity. The world responds to vulgar jokes (and hats), sarcastic slogans, to a show of force. But when we attempt to do things according to that paradigm, we’re losing something essential and powerful within ourselves. We’re sacrificing the power of femininity while trying to make a point about how inherently valuable we, as women, are. I’m not, for a single second, dismissing the very valid concerns, pains, and injustices that our generation faces. I’m calling into question the current picture of what it looks like to be a feminist. It feels limiting to me. I’m saying, for anyone else who resonates with this, that there’s another way available to us. It doesn’t mean that we’re less passionate about social issues, that we are less open minded, compassionate or even effective. It means that we choose to stay centered in our own self-sovereignty as women, to stay empowered, dignified, and strong as we address systemic issues.

And that fight begins with ourselves.

It begins in our families. It begins in quiet, clarity. When a woman lives out of her own inherent power, the world unfolds like a carpet in front of her. She doesn’t have to dress like a vagina, or be funny, or rage, or march, or let anyone call her nasty! It’s a different paradigm, one that we’re finding our way back to if you’re on this journey with me. And it might not look like anything you see in the media.

Ultimately, we want a world where women are valued every bit as much men BECAUSE we are different, not because we have found a way to imitate manly displays of power. If you feel unrepresented by the cultural view of what being a “feminist” looks like right now, I just want to offer you these words to say that I see you. I stand with you, even though I didn’t leave my house. And I look eagerly forward to journey further and deeper into our own impossible mystery and strength as women.


pps An article by the wonderful independant journalist Caity Johnstone:


it’s time to value yourself above all else



It’s my Birthday TODAY~ ’52, I LOVE YOU ALREADY!’

One of the ways I am celebrating is to invite you to the ‘It’s MY Time’ new call!

I’m calling this my Golden Year (my birthday day 17 is the same as the year 20-17 😉

and I intend something distinctively expansive and exquisite for myself!


To be REALLY REAL & RAW with you, while I’ve been thriving in my business and relationships~

I have gotten a little off-track in some other areas of my life…

its my time to GO THERE with myself.



And so do YOU my Beauty…


No more waiting, denying, sabotaging, or holding back!

Maybe you feel the same and you are DONE wasting time, staying small and stuck!

Whether it’s your BODY, your LOVE-LIFE or your FINANCES or your PURPOSE-

SOME of you are going to stop endlessly circling the runway and actually take off to your next level!

And some of you are going to be RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE NOW at the end of this year.

Because let’s be real, most people don’t live 70 or 80 years-





The difference is in your DECISION.

(DO NOT even try to think about the HOW… it will always be revealed to you perfectly)


Just intend it!

There’s SO much power at your lovely long fingertips.

I’m with you 😉



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I can’t wait to connect with you when I’m back, see you on the call!

with wishes and kisses,




ps REMEMBER~ A *gratified* YOU is the most generous gift you can ever give!




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